Home / Guide / A Wedding Abroad, with the Groom Taking the Lead A Wedding Abroad, with the Groom Taking the Lead Some grooms want to be involved in much more than turning up to say “I do”. When we organised weddings abroad at YachtWedding, we met men who genuinely enjoyed taking part in the preparations. They wanted to help shape a day that belonged to both of them. Alex Marek Published 31. 10. 2026 ◷ 2 min read ⓘPhoto: Veranda Pointe Aux Biches Hotel Mauritius 4*, Mauritius Related to: Destination wedding · Elopement · Vow renewal Some grooms want to be involved in much more than turning up to say “I do”. When we organised weddings abroad at YachtWedding, we met men who genuinely enjoyed taking part in the preparations. They wanted to help shape a day that belonged to both of them. Choosing the destination and hotel, arranging flights, planning trips and activities — for some grooms, that is half the fun. He might even offer to arrange the bride’s hairstylist. Why not? It is his wedding too. A wedding abroad can also be a chance to shape the day around what the two of you want. If a big reception, a seating plan or elaborate decorations are not part of that picture, you can leave them out. You might travel just the two of you, bring your children or invite a few of the people closest to you. That can leave more time for each other and for the experiences you have chosen to share. Of course, the wedding will not organise itself. There is still the ceremony to arrange, travel and accommodation to plan, and perhaps guests to look after. An experienced organiser can help with the practical work, but cannot decide for you what kind of day you want. For a groom who does not see himself standing stiffly through a formal ceremony while others make all the plans, a wedding on the beach may be more his style. He can bring some of his own personality to the day, without following traditions that neither partner really wants. What matters most is the two of you. Not perfect decorations or a packed programme for guests, but the time you spend together and the memories you make. It is your wedding first and foremost. And when the groom looks back on everything they planned together, he can feel proud of his part in it. He was not just another guest at his own wedding. He helped make it happen. Here’s to grooms who enjoy the preparations — and to couples who can relax and enjoy the day they have made their own. Latest from partners Sponsored Veranda Paul et Virginie, Mauritius: Complimentary Wedding Package with Your Hotel Stay Veranda Paul et Virginie offers its Simply Classic wedding ceremony package as a complimentary gift for hotel guests. 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Sponsored Veranda Paul et Virginie, Mauritius: Complimentary Wedding Package with Your Hotel Stay Veranda Paul et Virginie offers its Simply Classic wedding ceremony package as a complimentary gift for hotel guests. It includes: A beach wedding ceremony venue and the services of a wedding coordinatorA wedding cake for four and a bottle of sparkling wine after the ceremonyA bottle of sparkling wine and seasonal fruit in your room upon arrivalCanapés and two glasses of red wine on the first eveningA wedding dinner for two at Le Saint Géran restaurant (drinks excluded)Pressing of the wedding dress and suit, witnesses upon request and wedding-night gifts in your room Terms: Complimentary for guests staying at the hotel. Floral decorations and legal formalities are not included. Symbolic ceremonies and vow renewals require a paid celebrant (approximately EUR 184). A weekend or public holiday surcharge applies (approximately EUR 83). No ceremonies take place from 15 December 2026 to 6 January 2027. Offer valid until 31 January 2027. Show more Learn more
Sponsored La Pirogue, Mauritius: Free Wedding Package with a Stay of 3 Nights or More La Pirogue offers its Your Wedding, Our Gift wedding ceremony package as a complimentary gift with your stay. It includes: Wedding ceremony setup at your chosen location within the resort and the services of a wedding coordinatorA bridal bouquet and a buttonhole flower for the groomA wedding cake for two and a bottle of sparkling wineA three-course dinner for two and a special breakfast served in your roomPressing of the wedding dress and suit, depending on fabric and designWitnesses upon request and an in-room gift Terms: Minimum stay of 3 nights. A legally recognised wedding requires separate official formalities and arrival in Mauritius at least 2 days before the ceremony. Show more Learn more
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Sponsored Sun Siyam Olhuveli, Maldives: Honeymoon Perks Newlyweds staying at least 3 nights in a Grand-category villa can enjoy: A three-course dinner on the beach and a celebration cakeA bottle of wine, a fruit basket and romantic bed decorations25% off spa treatments20% off water sports15% off introductory diving for couples Terms: Couples must have married within the past 12 months and present their marriage certificate upon arrival. This offer cannot be combined with other promotions. Show more Learn more
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Planning Destination wedding Beaches, iconic locations and different traditions. A wedding abroad opens up plenty of possibilities – but the travel and practical arrangements need thoughtful planning too.
True story Marcela and Boris’s Wedding in Mauritius — An Interview with the Bride Marcela kindly shared the story of her legally recognised wedding in Mauritius with us, from everything that led up to the big day to how the day itself unfolded.